Anyone interested in offering me a book deal yet?
Basically, it takes maybe all of 10 seconds to send someone a text/snap/life update of some sort.
WHY HASN’T HE TEXTED ME BACK!?
So now that we’ve established the guilty ones, we now move on to the next.
It is my belief that these men do not fully realize the effect that ghosting has on a rational human being. I will attempt to explain.
Emotional yo-yoing is exhausting and by the end of the cycle, we’ve convinced ourselves that he’s just not that into you ala the 2009 movie that I saw on Valentine’s Day with my boyfriend at the time. It didn’t last much longer. Go figure.
And who is to blame? Is it our fault for letting our emotionally stability hinge on one man’s response time or is it his fault for keeping us in purgatory indefinitely?
Is it you or me?
The reality of the situation is we cannot control who we become emotionally invested in.
But who are we kidding? Masochism is the new black so see you suckers there.
Nvm he just texted back.
Ignore everything I just said.